Black love is not infatuation, a preference, or an excuse.
Men have often asked if I ever dated outside of my race? My response is always with a stern no. As if, I am going to be rewarded with a huge badge of honor for sticking with black men. Don't get me wrong my attraction to a specific person often stimulates beyond race and I typically vibe with those who are intellectual, witty, sarcastic, have dry humor, non-judgmental, and goal orientated. Basically, I am attracted to people. I, however, ultimately see myself settling down wi